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March 30, 2017 at 6:17 pm
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Craig
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Dear Carey Bounds, If you got to the point of being deeply unhappy and depressed, then it makes sense that you changed something. You can’t change your partner, and you had shared your desires with him. You didn’t change yourself to become satisfied with the status quo (I’m NOT suggesting you should – I’m only walking through the options). All that’s left to change is to look elsewhere for what you want and need.
It’s possible – but don’t count on it – that your decision will trigger your ex to re-examine himself and what he wants, and he may return to your life. But don’t wait around for that.
Best wishes.