Dear Thomas:

You wrote: “She said our hearts are bonded forever’ and “she said she is only dating this guy because she misses me and feels lonely and likes someone to do things with”- well, she is not telling you the truth, like you suggested yourself (“i feel she is just telling me this to make me feel better.”)-

She is physically, sexually involved with another man and so… her heart is bonded with yours? What does it mean: her heart is bonded with yours and forever, while she is with another man and while she has no definite plans for a reunion between the two of you in two years or ever?

What does it mean…what she says? If it means to make you feel better, is it working…?

My suggestion is that you have no contact with her during the two years before you move to her city. When you move to her city, then contact her, if you are still interested. Let her know this is your plan, to contact her in two years, not before.

Post and vent anytime.

anita