Dear laelithia:

You wrote: “he first said he thought it ‘sort of just played itself out'”- that means he was playing, doesn’t it.

It “played itself out” because it was a game he was playing. Like I wrote to you before, it reads to me that you had the misfortune of getting involved with a dishonest man. He probably enjoyed the game (what I referred to as an adventure part ride, earlier), so he was having fun. But he knew all along it was a ride, not bothering to care about you getting hurt when he chose to get off the ride; when it…” sort of just played itself out”.

His dishonesty and game playing is not an indication of your worth as a woman, or as a person, and it is nothing you did wrong.

* will be back to the computer in about ten hours or so. Take good care of yourself.

anita