Hi Anita,

Yes, he has definitely stamped me with “expired”, that I know. I was more wondering if you still thought it was a good idea to meet with him for coffee, as you mentioned, in a different context. I think if I asked him to meet tomorrow (rather than his precious weekend time, it is his birthday and all) he would probably agree.

Then again, I wonder if a 6 hour drive, and essentially stroking his ego/coming off as a clingy ex is worth it. I’m just so confused on how the best way for me to move on is. I just want to kill this fantasy once and for all. I don’t know if seeing him in a different context would truly provide me the closure I crave, or it subconsciously it is just an excuse to see him again.