Dear LoveAndLive:

There are two questions here, as I see it:

1) What are his feelings for you (loves me- loves me not…)?

2) Do you want to know (to know- or not to know…)?

You wrote: “He might just say that he doesn’t see me that way. I’m so confused”.  Personally, I very much do not like being confused. So I would ask him #1, definitely. Once I get a clear and honest answer from him, I will no longer be confused. I welcome clarity anytime I can get it!

If the two of you continued to be co-workers, that would be a consideration in whether to ask him about his feelings, as such may create discomfort in the work environment. But since he is leaving, that is not a factor.

anita