Hello Anita, Inky and Eliana,

I would like to thank you all for your advice. I have wondered if I love him and my answer is Yes. I know through my post, it was not enough to describe about this guy. I have confided in him and I had my answers for most of my questions. I understood why he behaved like this or that. He had been cheated 9 times in the past and grew up with a harsh father. The more I know him, the more I love him. When I asked him if he loves her, he was confused for some seconds then said Yes. But I after that still showed him my sentiment because I simply don’t like to hide my emotion. I told him I love him not because I wanted him to make a choice or expect him to chose me but just wanted him to know that. Even right now, I no longer feel jealous. If he doesn’t chose me, I would get disappointed but after all his happiness is the what important to me even if it is not me.

I am now not doing anything ( not stalking his FB, messaging him or anything ) but let things happen naturally. What will we, will be.

I really appreciate your help. Have a nice day, wonderful girls!

Hang