Dear Avery Terabassi:

I hope you feel better soon!

You wrote: “he came back at me with insults including how i’m not a fun person… Then all of a sudden he stops answering… and he responded in such a hurtful manner.”

Next your thoughts are about  “that other girl… Is she better than me? Are the drugs better than me?”

If you take a thinking step back, think about him insulting you, suddenly not answering and being hurtful- it is not about the other girl, not even about the drugs- it is about him mistreating you.

He mistreated you not because you weren’t enough (the title of your thread). This means that trying to be more enough will not solve the problem: his mistreatment and unreliability.

anita