I feel as if I’m a pretty good “people pleaser” and have the fear that failure to make someone happy aka my girlfriend I will lose her. I know that this isn’t necessarily true because she does love me and cares about me, but the distance and lack of emotional connection through phone communication makes that harder to understand. I feel like I constantly want reassurance even though I never talk about these things because I’m strong on the outside, I don’t like to show weakness. I just really value her a lot which I think adds to the fear of losing her because I see so much potential down the road.