Oh my! I do feel for you because I’m of your age and that’s what I seek in a guy, too. I registered here only to post my sad story of 3 months – from day one, he was flirting and flirtation only increased over time to become too much, and from day one he’s been sending too many signals that make me think he genuinely loves me (including saying “I love you”, talking about his dream marriage and kids, calling me out for long trips abroad in the near future, etc.) but till date he doesn’t want to label the relationship (when confronted, he’d give diplomatic or silly answers like “we’re spiritually incompatible”) while increasing the flirtation!

Some time after the earlier stages, I was meant to think he was really into me because he’d share everything with me, till he turned hot and cold, and began talking of other women, and even told me he was considering marrying one of his female friends that’s struggling with a toxic relationship now, and when I asked him if he could really picture any other woman in my place for all the romantic things he did with em, he coolly said that he never intended it to be romantic (and only some ‘genuine connection that can’t be labelled with worldly names’) and he does that with a few other females (even married and committed ones, 2 or 3 others!), I was terribly disappointed!!! How could they be so heartless??? (But in their minds, to get rid of guilt, they’d probably consider themselves heroes because they were ‘honest’ with us!)

I can understand how you’d be feeling because I’m feeling really numb after I blocked him recently. Shucks! I hope that both of us overcome this pretty soon and either find happiness and satisfaction in being single or that we meet the right men soon, whichever is better for us, dear. Hugs! 🙂