Dear Sleepy_Kiky:

I hope you feel better soon.

You wrote: “It felt like he didn’t want to know about me anymore, he just wanted to make out with me. And when I wanted to learn more about him, he asked me why I had to know him to date him.”- this is a major, unbridgeable difference in motivation for a relationship.

Your motivation is to get to know him. His motivation is to make out with you exclusively, getting to know each other otherwise, not a motivation.

You wrote: “I want so badly to help him through this time”- I don’t understand: help him with what? Is he going through a tough time (you didn’t mention that)?

anita