Dear Nan:

R-1 was an executive for a big company, an executive is a person with senior managerial responsibility in a business organization. It is not uncommon that a man successful in managing a big company fails miserably in managing his home.

A man from the big city, traveling for business, an executive, “going up through the ranks and fighting his way to the top”, and yet, a “a hometown girl, (who) lived in same place for her whole life”, who didn’t travel, managed to keep “him tied up, since his resources are all in the jointly owned paid off house”, living in that house, not even having his own transportation (I remember from a previous thread, still so?), for years. She is in charge, so far.

You wrote: “I am in neutral and not going forward. Life lessons………..and I remain in my shallow life here, as waiting to see what happens.” – Nan in Neutral; Nan Waiting.

anita