I also want to add. She and I are ten years apart, I’m a 30 year old lesbian and she is 20 year old who is unsure of her sexuality yet open for a possible relationship with a man or woman. I never had a relationship, only dated guys in high school and was in love with my ex best friend gor 16 years. My ex took advantage of my love for her, used me for her own selfish needs, lead me on and also was jealous of anyone (man or woman) who became close to me. I ended that friendship when I noticed she was jealous of the woman I’ve fallen for.