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Hey guys, I just want to say thank you so much. I never would expect a reply this quickly so this is really great. I did very well in school last year(A’s,,, mostly and 2 B’s and that’s better than I’ve ever done) so I was really fine. I guess I should have made it clear but I assume since I was freaking out last night over it, I wasn’t thinking correctly. It’s currently summer so no school to worry about currently. I’m going to take a distant break from him now. If he doesn’t like me putting myself first then we’re done. I’ll never let a boy get in the way of my success and if my boyfriend isn’t my biggest cheerleader like I believe a partner should be, then it’s done. If he can’t respect my wishes and let me do what makes me happy then I can’t pretend I’m happy with him. I’m going to wear makeup and spend money on it and if he hates it then that sucks. If he loves me for me then he’s going to support me. His mom bought a plane ticket to visit him in August that’s $200 so if I’m still happy by then, I’ll go. But if I feel sad at night when we’re away still, then I won’t go. I can’t suffer for a month only to force myself to go somewhere I’m not happy. I’ll do as I please and if he doesn’t like it then I don’t like him.