Dear Anita,

Thank you for your amazing reply again. I understand your point, but I have a question regarding this break up that I feel like you might have an opinion on. One of the way that I have been effectively dealing with this break up is by thinking and having the mindset that we broke up BECAUSE we love each other. Him letting me go, and me letting him go is the biggest proof of our love. Just because we are not with that person due to several conditions does NOT change a thing about how we felt for each other. We will love and take care of each silently and from afar. It is just right now – we are not in a place to have a long term commitment. I express this mindset to several people, some agrees, some strongly disagrees thinking that by having this mindset – it means that I am not moving on with my life. What I am saying is that sometimes love itself isn’t enough to keep a relationship going, which on my case is true. But it doesn’t change the fact that its was love, is love and probably in the future will always be love.

I would appreciate your opinion – Anita. Thank you very much.

-Mina