Dear Samantha:

Maybe he is a man of his word and he doesn’t commit to a word unless he means it whole heartedly and then he is as dependent and honorable as can be. I don’t know. The speed in which the relationship is moving should be, I am thinking, a result of him and you moving it along, not only him.

The value of a relationship is not in a word or title a person uses, it is about the person using the word or title (or not using it). A dishonest person is always a red flag, no  matter the word he/s he uses. A word may or may not be a red flag depending on the person using it.

anita