Good news! I went and spoke with him and we had a really good talk.  He’s never been in this situation before so just needed some time to take it in. I told him I was worried he wouldn’t want to see me anymore and he said that thought never crossed his mind. We had such an amazing evening, and I saw him again last night.

I thought we might have taken the next step last night but he said he still needs some time to absorb the information before we have sex.

Im now a little worried that eventually he just won’t be able to accept it, even though he says that’s not the case.

Im scared of getting hurt now because I’m so invested, but it feels so right and he’s told me many times how much he likes me, that he’s told his friends about met etc.