Dear Felita,

I am sorry that you must be so confused and torn right now. Since this is still fresh, I understand your feeling of “crazy,” “dying inside,” and wanting to scream. I understand that once you are attached to someone, it is hard to not try to find them on social media, and I know personally how you can find out if somebody has blocked you or not. I have done that kind of sleuthing myself, and finding out that that person has done so does spin you on your head.

I am reluctant to analyse the situation (what she meant by what she said, and did, etc.) as it may not be helpful to you right now. Can you tell us what you need the most now, so I or somebody else can be with you / sit with you (figuratively) in this moment?

(I am hoping my post doesn’t have the html codes that hinder reading. What’s not helpful is that I only started having them show up in my last few posts).

Gia