Anita/Craig – No, i said i would give her time and space to figure out herself, figure out the stress.  I didn’t promise that my feelings would remain nor was there a set time on anything.  I think she is struggling with so much right now that she just doesn’t know what direction she wants to go in anything not just our relationship. I think as Craig said, I can be there gently or be available but i think for my own well being, letting go is what may be best.  I don’t want to live in purgatory and have constant questions of what may or may not be.  Ultimately, if she finds she wants to be with me, at that time i would have to consider how i feel then and ultimately see what she learned during this time.

Craig