Dear Amaya:

Those jokes are not funny, as far as I am concerned, not at all. I would be offended by them if I was you and seems like you are offended as well. His joke about your eating is particularly offensive and harmful, because of your eating disorder. As one with lots of disordered eating history myself, I would be so very much troubled by this one.

You wrote: “He is a great guy and when were having fun he’s amazing’- well, his jokes are not such that a great guy would say.

Don’t you think that he needs to acknowledge this behavior and change it immediately?

anita