Dear Anita,

Thank you. I guess I didn’t want to admit to myself that he just wasn’t able to have a relationship. He did send me all those texts and said all the right things and I think it had a lot to do with the pressure of his surroundinga. But then I feel used… could you help with one more thing? I haven’t seen him since the break up and we are attending the same event soon and will have to be close to each other a lot and do things together. I am concerned about how to act especially since he proclaimed me a terrible girlfriend, insulted me publicly and clearly doesnt feel he had done anything wrong. Thank you.