Dear Daisy:

Somehow let him know before or during the event that you accept the breakup and the ending of the relationship, that you have given up on it being any more than what was, that you are okay with it being over.

Let him know that it is best that the two of you act respectfully toward each other and about each other (as in talking to others), and that you are willing to put aside all past conflicts, to act civilly and respectfully toward each other.

anita