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Dear Kylee,
I appreciate you giving a thought over my point of view. I am really sorry to hear about the situation with your father. Kylee listen you don’t have to blame and beat yourself for the break-up, any relationship is two sided and as you said you were trying to look over his flaws. You mentioned “When we broke up he said that im so open and honest and such a great girlfriend… it makes me think then why wouldnt he want me? and it leaves me feeling unworthy…” I feel he just admitted what he couldn’t be. It takes real courage to be as honest and open in any relationship, with commitment issues around he has made you feel that its your fault masking all his faults making it easy for him. You are matured enough to take your own decisions, write your own story of life. There is a quote “The universe will keep hitting you with the same lessons in cycles until you learn“.So there is something to learn from the previous relationship.Life is never a fairy tale everyone’s life is unique you cannot compare yours with anyone. Accept the break-up, start working on yourself on your downsides. You deserve a person who is matured enough to understand your deepness and for what you are at the same time you must understand for who he is 🙂