Dear Brandy:

Clearly, you are tired of living his life. Doing what he wants to do (shopping and clubbing). And there are other problems. At first he did things with you and the three kids, and seems like this is what you wanted, you and your children having a family oriented man in your lives, to include all of you. What you have now and have had for a while is a man interested in a girlfriend, no kids, doing his thing.

This almost three year relationship has reached its expiration date, hasn’t it?

anita