Dear Sarah:

You are welcome. It will be easier if people were clear, straightforward and assertive (while being respectful). But without such, we still need to know what is going on. His behavior indicates what is going on: that the breakup did happen and he is not interested in a relationship with you. There is no point in waiting for him to become assertive, suspended until then in confusion.

And so, I do understand your decision “to move on.”

anita