Dear Connie:

That “kind and playful little boy” inside your ex boyfriend does have “kindness and a good heart”. But that that little boy is “buried too deep”, to deep for you to uncover. Sometimes you saw that little boy in his eyes, didn’t you? Heard him in his voice, felt him and you wanted to “help the person (you) loved”.

It was not possible for you and if you got back with him, it would still not be possible for you. You would get glimpses of the little boy but too soon, that little boy will be gone and you are left with the adult, angry, bitter.

anita