Hi Rebecca,

Why not talk to him and tell him how you feel? Let him know that you feel like he broke your trust and that you view it as a sign of disrespect. Let him know that you’re hurting. You are planning on marrying this person! Life will not be perfect for the next 50 years–both of you will mess up. Both of you will mess up big time. Successful couples will communicate about it and work through it together.

Talk to him. See what he has to say. Work though it.