Hello again anita and sorry im late. As of your answer, my boyfriend is a great man. He is the most wonderful man i’ve ever met. He is caring, treats me right and is always there for me.

However i do feel like sometimes im a bit possessive or something. I suffer from OCD so i have intrusive thoughts about me being a bad person.

For example, the other day it bothered me that he was going to go out without me when i told i him i didnt want to go, because i was a bit depressed. I dont undertand why it bothered me because if i dont want to go out he doesnt have to stay home with me, but deep down i was expecting he would… And now im thinking im a bad person because i wanted him to stay with me and not go out. However, deep down i wanted to go out with him but sometimes im a bit bitter and its just hard for me to go out.

Im always thinking “am i a good girlfriend or am i toxic?” because of the things i get bothered. I just want to not be bothered by these kind of things.