When we talk abt it now..he says it was just the sex. This to me makes no sense as we are extremely adventurous and he had no ned to want to have sex with another woman. She also made it seem like there were more intimate feelings…that they had both fallen inlove with each other. He claima this was not so. She also proposed to him 4 times saying that they cld not have sex unless they were married. So I have the feeling that either he did really fall for her cos everything that he did was so out of character and also everything that she is is everything that he disliked in a woman. So why her? What made hwr so special that he wld risk every thing to have sex with her and then both claim that it wasnt good.