Dear lost in the wild:

I second Inky.

You wrote that right at the beginning of this long distance relationship, “She convinced me, threatened me saying she would die without me”- that was before there was a relationship, before you supposedly used her for emotional support, before she invested her time, correct?

She threatened suicide as a way to get you into the relationship and now she threatens it as a way to keep you in it.

You wrote: “She also told many other lies ,many of which she herself confessed to only recently”- problem is, when we hear the same lies over and over again (perhaps during her emotional rants which you mentioned), we start believing them. We get confused, we know on some level that these are  lies but we believe them because of the repetition and emotion in which they are said.

I think that your challenge is to see the reality of this woman and this relationship as it is. Post again anytime.

anita