Dear magic:

I understand that you are upset, feeling badly. You wish he didn’t block you, or that he unblocks you. Unfortunately for you, you have no control over his blocking you. What is it then that you do have control over?

One thing you can control is your learning experience. Learning from your life experience is something you can choose to do. You thought that it was okay to threaten to kill a person, and that it was okay to threaten to do so because a person didn’t text you when you wanted him to. You thought it was a matter of no big deal. Now you learned that for some people it is a big deal.

He took offense to your threat, reads to me, not necessarily for the threat itself but for the fact that his friends witnessed it. Meaning, his male friends saw that a woman is threatening him. He felt embarrassed, ashamed to be seen as a … weak man, one that allows a woman to threaten him with physical harm. So he responded by calling you names and blocking you.

It is better that you do not fight with people, not unless they are threatening you with physical harm. It is better that you don’t threaten to kill people, unless they are threatening to kill you first. Protect yourself when in physical danger; do not pose a physical danger to others in person or threaten them with physical harm online.

Calm yourself best you can, is my advice. Learn from the experience and correct your future behavior.

anita