Dear magic:

It is way better to prevent problems than to cause problems and then try to solve them. If you didn’t threaten him (or fight previously), you wouldn’t have this problem. Next time, think before you text or talk or do. Consider the consequences of what you are about to communicate.

It is okay to feel angry, to feel whatever it is that we feel. What we feel is not a matter of choice. What we text, say and do is subject to choosing. Be wiser.

At this point, best you can do is calm down, accept with as much calm as you can, what happened. He is not in the wrong for blocking you. He did the right thing. I would have blocked you too and never meet you in person again, if you threatened to kill me.

Accept what you did and how he responded.

If he unblocked you, if you were still communicating, you would still be living where you are living, having the life you have and he would still be having his life. A marriage, you indicated, was very unlikely. Nothing much would be different if he unblocked you. Focus on your life, how to make it better.

anita