He actually seems to be quite emotional and sensitive. He claims he married her because she needed him to and because it helped him financially and with a place to live. They live together, with her children. I think he didn’t think he would find anyone with whom he wanted to be in a serious relationship so it wouldn’t matter. No one really knows they are married. They are not connected on social media, and she only has posted that she is in a relationship, which she posted after I communicated with her.

He says he was hurt that I shared the personal information with her because that was just between us two. I shared it with her when I believed they were in a loving marriage because I wanted her to understand I wasn’t making it up but rather offering proof. He said that me sharing this information with her made him very sad and that he cannot think about it because it is too much and makes him not trust me.

From my past, it seems a tad manipulative. I don’t know what to think or how to feel. One minute I believe everything, and the next minute I question things. I told him I did not reach out and contact her again. Should I just leave him and see if he figures out that it was a lie and comes back to me? I don’t want to deal with so much drama and have this woman make up things again in the future. Maybe he isn’t worth it.