Thanks everyone for responding and providing insight. I am working on it. He brought food to have dinner with me yesterday. I told him I do not like how this is going and until he realizes I do not want to speak to him or go forward with the wedding. He told me that he does not believe he did anything wrong and will make my life a living hell for blaming him that he is abusive. He told me he will “show me what abusive means” until I get up and leave from his life myself. This morning, he woke up and acted like nothing happened. I have not spoken to him and continue to maintain distance. I am trying to speak to my boss about a potential transfer and I am hoping it gets honored. After finally half of the day is over and ignoring him, I finally send him a long message telling him my feelings, to which he responds I don’t have time to read long and stupid messages. He is trying to keep his dominance. I am really tired. I am going to start distancing myself in a safe way.

Ankur – my family loves me a lot and I do not want to hurt them in the process. Yesterday my mother called me and I sounded like i was crying so she started crying as well, so I had to hang up on her. These issues affect everyone around me who cares about me. I hope I can just safely leave him without further interferences from him.