Dear Heartbrokengurl:

Three times of breaking up with you is two or three times too many, especially in a few months-long relationship. Clearly he is emotionally unavailable for a relationship with you, feeling stressed and distressed in different areas in his life.

I am wondering why he didn’t find comfort in the relationship with you, why it was another stressor for him… wondering if his distress is about the sexual issue, if it is that you expressed to him how much you need from him and he felt inadequate in his ability to meet your needs, or that he has a very low distress tolerance in life…?

anita