Dear Heartbrokengurl:

You are welcome. Better not wait for him to figure things out if you can help not waiting. If you can move on, better you move on. My wish for you is that you get into a loving, reliable relationship, not an on again off again relationship. A loving relationship with a man who will see you as a comforting person in his life, one he turns to when in distress, not one to push out of his life when in distress.

If he needs to figure things out, why not figure things out with you, when communicating with you. It would be nice if he thought that through conversations with you he can figure things out better than when alone.

anita