Dear DP:

Obsessed you are, so much so that you are not available to focus on my posts to you. You keep repeating your thought.

Examining the thought itself, notice the following, if you will:

You wrote: “I’ve never had and will not have enough information to go on and feel like I’ve made an informed decision” – how many women and what kinds of relationships with those women would constitute “enough information”. The two hook ups may not be enough information for your girlfriend especially since she didn’t know those men well.

What kind of information are you looking for, in experiences with other women, in hookups? In superficial, physical experiences with other women you can experience a difference in body parts, is that what you are looking for, will that be enough information?

What information did she get from her hookups with the two guys- what if you asked her just that. If more information is your concern, ask her what information did she get from those hookups that helped her realize you are the one?

anita