Dear DP:

No, you are not offending me. It is distressing somewhat (but I am still willing) to communicate with a person obsessed because my messages are not considered. Isn’t it so that your girlfriend’s input regarding what troubles you did not resolve your trouble, just like my input does not?

The thought itself, the one you repeat, is quite senseless and I challenged it as senseless in my last post to you. Thing is, your feelings are not senseless. There is some valid, important information behind your trouble, what I call, obsession.

I think that the reason you have trouble to successfully “explain what I feel in my head”- is that the important, valid information is in your heart, not in your head.

You wrote above that you feel inadequate- this may be that valid information of the heart, what I was referring to right above. Would you like to examine your feeling of being inadequate? If so, let me know.

anita