Dear Lester:

I think you should share your distress with her, responsibly. You need to not have more information about her sexual past so to not add to your collection of existing images, images that torture you so. Don’t ask her for more information and communicate to her that you need no more information.

Maybe she can help you with your distress, not resolve it magically, as such is probably impossible, not for long. But help you along.

anita