Eliana, thank you for all the support. Deep down I do know that she wanted to be with me earlier and that I pushed her away to someone else’s arms. The regret is what is killing me. I do not blame her for what happened. She had to move on with her life, and that is exactly what she is doing. But, yea she could do it better by not hurting me in the process.

I know I am getting hurt more by this whole foggy situation, but she is moving away from me and closer to the guy (another city) in just 2 weeks. I will be devastated when that happens, but I believe that is when the real healing starts.

Can you tell me if what I am thinking will work – I am contemplating moving to a different city (I have no strings attached to my current place), and “disappear” for a while. The thing is the most of my friends are also her friends. My current city reminds me of her. Every little thing. We have done so much together here. What is the best course of action? How do I move forward with my life by minimizing the regret?