Dear Jolene:

It was clear to me, from your previous share that he was dishonest with you, but it is not clear to me that he “used and tossed (you) away like a piece of garbage?”-

The sexual component of the relationship with him was never in person, not in adulthood. When you stayed in the same geographical location, he avoided getting together with you, so he clearly rejected the idea of having sex with you, in person. Can you explain to me where is the using  and the tossing you away like a piece of garbage?

With better understanding I hope I can answer your questions in your last post.

anita