Dear Monica:

You wrote last: “I want to help her so badly”- reads to me that you need to help yourself.

Your post before last was part of a temper tantrum. You already communicated to me that when you lash out, what I call temper tantrums, you say inaccurate things. Also, these lashing out, these tantrums are aimed at getting attention and sort of…  performing on a stage and enjoying the limelight.

Well, I am not your audience, I am not sitting in that theatre.

anita