Dear Jolene:

Regarding your first paragraph above, you are referring to the soulmate comment, that she believed early on that they were soulmates and that you had concrete evidence it wasn’t true? If so, then even if he later on believed they were soulmates, at the time she declared that they were soulmates, he did not believe that they were, not a long time after. She is not a fortune teller. They were not soulmates when she believed they were, and therefore… they were not.

Regarding the possibility that “has done some growing and maturing regarding the pain and anger of his divorce and this is what he believes now”- his behavior toward you is again, concrete evidence that he has not matured. Also, his pain and anger predate his divorce, most likely and is not all about that marriage and divorce.

anita