Dear Alicia:

If you do not have legal rights over his property (having been in a common law relationship with him for seven years, in Canada)- then I see no reason to expect any financial benefit from him. Better not spend more of your income on his house when you have no legal rights to it.

You wrote: “He asked me to get out his house last spring and I moved out”- if you move back in, he might ask you out of his house again.

You wrote: “I’m worry if I am 70 years old and he is still in his bad character”- he is now 67. When you are 70, he will be 79. He is not likely to change from the age of 67 to 79.

You wrote: “I’m mentally and physically tired”- this relationship has taken away from you, money and energy. Better stop exhausting yourself.

I understand your need for financial security. I hope you find it elsewhere- doesn’t read it is with him. Not unless he takes legal action to secure you financially, an action that he cannot take back!

anita