Dear Dolores:

You are welcome. I understand that through your long distance communication with him you felt that you were special to him and that gave you comfort, a sense of well-being, which you lost when you found out he has been having another relationship, in person throughout his communication with you. Replacing that comfort you had is hurt.

The fact is that you are special. I have no doubt. You were probably special to him as well, just not as the-one-and-only.

I hope you post again if you need to, anytime.

anita