Dear Gagan:

“What is happening?” you asked.

From having read on this site many personal stories of people in arranged marriages and from having communicated with these people, I think that what is happening is a setting of the following scenario: her getting married to the other guy and continuing a romantic/ physical relationship with you, long distance mostly, perhaps, with occasional physical meetings. This is often what takes place.

You were clear with her, that you were willing to have a lifetime with her. She rejected you. Why did she get angry, is what I am wondering. Maybe she got angry that you didn’t offer her that lifetime before. 

Maybe she got angry for a different reason. I wouldn’t go further, if I was you, without finding out the reason for her anger. Perhaps you don’t know her as well as you think you know her.

anita