Dear Gagan:

No, you are not bothering me. I am here because I choose to be here,  because it works for me. Please post as many times as you would like.

In your post before last you wrote: ” She got angry and hung up”- it is difficult for me to process her action of hanging up on you, after the weekend she chose to spend with you, after the long relationship with you. Did this happen before, her hanging up on you, leaving when you brought up something she didn’t want to discuss or when it was not convenient for her to discuss?

How did she function in conflicts with you in the past, before, when you were living together?

anita