Dear Gagan:

Improvement is good enough. Day by day is the way to go, says I.

You wrote “I hope I don’t feel lost and hopeless”- you may feel lost and hopeless again, probably will.  The amazing thing to me is the following: if you married her, a woman who makes sure she is always right, and you – and your future children- are always wrong, it is then that you would truly be lost and hopeless because you wouldn’t be able to go back in time and undo the birth of your child who will suffer.

It is better that you feel lost and hopeless than that you are lost and hopeless.

anita