I think I have just been ghosted too, by the same guy that ghosted me 6 months ago.  He came back and said he was so sorry.

We had started a whirlwind long distance romance in April.  We were communicating everyday, laughing, having fun.  Then suddenly he dropped off about 4 weeks before I was to leave for the UK.   I went on my holiday anyway and stayed in Southern England.  I was to drive up to Wales midweek and I still intended to do that and I was going to try to spot him at his local pub.

He knew where I was to stay in Wales as we had planned to spend that time together.  Long story short I did not get up to Wales as I had an airbag accident the day before I was to go to Wales so I stayed south.  A week after I got home I sent him a whatsapp message saying sorry I never made it to Wales..maybe next time.   He immediately called me and said why are you texting me now?  I tried calling you when I knew you were arriving in the UK and it went right to voicemail.  I went to the hotel you were to be at everyday looking for you.

We fell back into it…hours of video chatting everyday..messages..sharing our lives as best we could from 4,000 miles apart.  I am to leave for the UK again in 3 weeks and now he is not communicating after just last week telling me he wanted to get to the hotel a day ahead of me so he can be there as soon as I get through customs at the airport.  He told too that all of our plans are still in place – we were talking long term..me going there twice..then him to the States for 90 days to stay with me and then if all was well to get a fiance visa next summer.

I know he has internet issues since the storm but at this point I feel he is ignoring me.  I made a ghost gif that I plan to send him on Saturday if no word from him by then.  His fb status still says he is in a relationship but he may have just forgotten to change it.

The ghost gif will give me the satisfaction of letting him know that I know he is a coward.   I am devastated and heartbroken.