Dear VJ,

Thank you for your tips. I’ll try it if I wake up.  I’ll will also try to break the karmic link  – it doesn’t matter where in the world we live, the force finds us. I met mine thousands of miles away from home and we don’t speak the same languages. He speaks some English.

I’m grateful that he has been respecting my boundary by not contacting me. The silence treatment gives me time to formulate my thoughts and also to put everything in prospective.  I’m certain that I’ll not go back to the same pattern. Changes take time and people like him resist changes. By recognizing this, it’ll be easier to walk away even if my heart feel differently.  As much as we hate the silence sometimes, it’s the best ammunition to have to prepare for the next step.