Hi Poppy,

I guess so, especially the last few weeks as I have felt the pull away, which of course makes him pull away more. I think because its because he came on quite strong, and I didn’t need to feel panicked, insecure or have any concerns on where I stood. My biggest frustration is I expect the same courtesy or him as I would do for him, for example I have asked where I stand and does he want to call this a day? And his responses arent clear or barely replies. I would feel a lot better if he just gave me an honest answer even if that isn’t what I want to hear.

Maybe I am not good with the grey areas/control issues. Yes I do put a lot of effort in, I think thats fair to say.

Casey